Taking it one day at a time...

To be absolutely honest, I feel like I'm in hell right now. My body feels completely out of sync, and my mental health is also suffering. I have to change the way I'm looking at it - obviously there is no quick fix, my skating/running season is more than likely over for the year; so I need to focus on getting my body and mind healthy again. It's a lot harder than dealing with an injury because I don't even know exactly what's wrong yet. I have ideas but until I can get in to see my GI specialist (4 more days....) then I only have some theories. With an injury it's pretty obvious; this bone/ligament/tendon/muscle is injured, you need to do this and this and this to fix it; and no physical activity for x-amount of days/weeks/months...

My painful realization came this past Tuesday. I went skating. I am having trouble with shortness of breath; and I went skating. I was 8 miles in with 2+  miles left to go, and I felt like I couldn't catch my breath. My limbs and face started tingling, I had to stop to focus on slowing down my breathing because I was beginning to panic. It took me over 15 minutes to get back to my truck. I thought I had it under control but I realized I was having a panic attack and I could not deal with it on my own. I asked a cyclist to call 911 and an ambulance arrived about 15 minutes later. I don't want to write too much about it, just reliving it is making me feel some anxiety. But I have to note that the paramedics were WONDERFUL. I was lucky to have 2 of them who had actual experience with panic and anxiety so they were very compassionate. When the breathing exercises couldn't bring me down and I couldn't get it under control; they gave me 2 shots of Valium and took me to the hospital. I went to Littleton instead of Skyridge this time, and I actually had a much better experience there. The nurses were a lot more caring ad compassionate, and we had a very thorough discussion with ER doctor. 

I had a CAT scan done and it came back normal, my potassium was low and something with my heart was a little off - he said it wasn't alarming but worth noting. I was given a potassium pill and sent home. I slept from 4:30 pm Tuesday until 7:30 am Wednesday morning. I woke up, took my Thyroid medication and a Reglan, and 20 minutes later I was having a panic attack. Upon doing some reading I have come to the realization that the Reglan exacerbates my anxiety so I am no longer taking it. This really sucks because it was helping with the bloating and overly full feeling in my stomach; which allowed me to eat more.

My primary care physician had me cut my Thyroid medication dose back from 120 mg to 90 mg - apparently my labs for my Thyroid were high last time I was in so I may be over medicated. This can cause a whole host of issues; including some of my current ones. He also mentioned I might have some adhesions; I had 3 abdomen surgeries a couple of years ago, including my gallbladder - I've been having some sharp pains in the area where that used to be. Who knows. It's like all of these 'maybes' but nothing definite yet. Frustrating.

For now, I am having a great deal of anxiety around eating. I am hungry but I'm afraid to eat. I feel dizzy and short of breath; I just want to sleep. I cancelled my trip to Minnesota - there is no way I can even think about traveling with my heath this unstable; let alone competing in the duathlon. Northshore is still a maybe but for now I am thinking I won't be doing that one either. I feel like my season is over.

But I have to get healthy again. I know I will. I'm just right in the middle of it so it's hard to see a light at the end of the tunnel. I feel frustrated. and scared. and sick. I have moments of utter despair and hopelessness but these seem to pass quickly. I just want my life back. I have a lot riding on my visit with the GI doctor. In the meantime, I am taking a lot of Xanax to keep the anxiety at bay so I can at least eat... And I'm watching a lot of movies. (They keep my brain occupied so I quit dwelling on where I'm at right now.) I also had to put my job search on hold as well - I just don't feel stable enough to be starting a new job on top of everything else.

My next update will come after my GI visit. My guess is that I'll have to have another Endoscopy done (camera down the gullet) and maybe some other tests (gastric emptying, etc...) I just need answers; definitive answers so I can start fixing it. The not knowing or just guessing is very, very discouraging.

My Life On Hold

*I'm usually not one to hold back when I blog, I like to be pretty frank and open about things - it's like online journaling for me. So consider yourself warned.*

I've been in hell for the past week. Not literally, but it sure feels like it. I've had stomach issues for a couple of years now, usually bouts of really bad acid reflux with some brief periods of appetite loss and an inability to eat very much. I would go see my GI doc, get some acid reflux medication and resume my life. I've had two endoscopies done - I have a minor hiatal hernia, excess bile in my gut (that happened after I got my gallbladder out) and a 'lazy stomach'. I had no idea what that meant but had a visual of my stomach lying on the sofa watching M.A.S.H reruns and eating bon bons. Unfortunately it means that it doesn't empty as fast as it's supposed to. This can cause minor discomfort (like some bloating, burping, and gas) to some major issues (zero appetite, inability to eat, food fermenting in the gut. Appetizing.)

Ever since I ran my first half marathon in May, my symptoms have been getting progressively worse: and after each race they would increase drastically. A part of me really knew I should have skipped running the Sand Creek 10k on July 13th, but I ran it anyway. The day before I could hardly eat - so I know I didn't get enough calories to support even that short of a run. I felt pretty good afterwards, so I was hopeful. I ate some scrambled eggs and 2 slices of toast when I got home, took it easy. That evening I ate a very lean hamburger (I read that lean ground beef is one of the 'easy to digest' foods) and that's when my issues started. My stomach bloated so much that it pressed on my diaphragm; causing me to feel short of breath. This made me feel like I wasn't getting enough oxygen; so I started to panic. I took 1/4 of  a xanax and that helped. The next day was a similar situation - so I gave up on solid food altogether and started drinking Ensure just so I was getting SOMETHING in me. My husband was out of town all weekend so I have to give some props to my little dog, Casey. I was all alone and he was very comforting during those intense moments before the xanax kicked in...

Monday I had 2 Ensures and a blueberry muffin. I felt so/so. Tuesday I ate scrambled eggs and toast - actually felt pretty good. About 3 hours later, I started feeling off again. Overly full - like I just ate a HUGE meal, with pressure on my diaphragm. I felt like I couldn't breathe. On top of THAT - I was PAINFULLY constipated. I will admit, I had an epic meltdown, I felt hopeless, helpless and really scared. I just laid on the floor sobbing; with Casey curled up as close as he could get to me. My husband came home from work to take me to the ER. On the way, I was breathing really shallow because of the pressure in my lower gut. I had no idea that this is the same thing as hyper ventilating. As we pulled up to the ER, my body was tingling so bad and the muscles in my arms, legs, and face just sort of froze: I couldn't move. This made me panic even more!! I thought I was dying. The ER nurses rushed me back and got me breathing straight oxygen. Eventually this helped my arms and legs loosen up. A shot of Ativan (for the panic) and a shot of Reglan (for my stomach) and I almost felt human again. Unfortunately I neglected to effectively communicate to them that the constipation was also pretty bad... They sent me home with a prescription for Reglan. (This is a motility drug; it is supposed to help the stomach empty.) That night I ate some rice and grilled chicken. Holy cow, real food...

Then, Thursday came. Oh my fucking God. I've always wondered how awful it would be to have to go to the hospital because you couldn't poop. I am here to tell you that it is just as awful as you would imagine. I don't want to go into too much detail because matters of the bowels tend to be extremely distasteful - so I'll just say that I tried a few home remedies with zero success and I was in a great deal of pain. Believe me, going to the ER for THAT was a very last resort! The nurses were wonderful. They didn't even bat an eye at my extreme humiliation and embarrassment. They did an xray to make sure I didn't have any obstructions (nope, just impacted. Awesome.) They tried two remedies with minimal success, then sent me home with the same stuff they give patients to drink prior to having a colonoscopy done. Lucky for me, once I got home I was able to get relief without having to drink that stuff!!

Yesterday I discovered two things. Reglan makes me feel extremely dizzy and uncomfortable; and just the idea of eating is enough to trigger anxiety. We went to Denny's and I started having a panic attack before we even ordered food. After 1/4 xanax and a bit of walking around I was able to eat a sandwich, strawberries, and some pudding at home. I spent the day on the sofa, I am so fatigued from not getting enough nutrients in me.... Today I took the Reglan and attempted to eat some eggs, a slice of toast and some strawberries. I ate about half but didn't have any anxiety.

One of the most frustrating things has been trying to get in to see a GI doctor. My appointment is on July 29th. I have called so many times to try to change that and no luck. I've also called a few other GI doctors and it's the same thing. I feel like my life is completely on hold. I have no idea if this is permanent or something that can be fixed - I'm not even sure what's going on in my body! I can't run. I can't skate. I just want to sleep. I would give anything to be able to eat a giant plate of delicious Mexican food.

For now I'm thinking I won't be able to do the Minnesota Duathlon on August 3rd and I am extremely disappointed. But I can't train. I have to have faith that this is a temporary setback, that this is NOT how my life is going to continue to be. Even if I have to cut back the intensity of my physical activities I'd be okay with that - this inability to do anything is depressing as hell. I almost think it would be easier if I had some type of injury, it just seems weird that I can't exercise because of my stomach. It seems so much easier to say I can't skate because I pulled a muscle rather than I can't skate because my guts are fucked up. I don't know, I'm bitter and frustrated right now. I'm meeting some friends for lunch today, and I'll admit that I'm nervous. But I need to face this shit and re-train my body to NOT have anxiety. (Anyone who has ever had a panic attack knows that once you're in a cycle it's hard to break it.)

So. That is me. That is where I am. This year started out SO strong and I've done SO MUCH so I'm at least happy for that. I just hope I'll be able to do Northshore in September!!!!!

And Just Like That; Confidence Regained.

Today I tried out the new speed brake I bought from The Skate Shop Now - it is a Powerslide speed brake, and it fits beautifully on my Bont 3PF 7050 frame. It didn't take me more than a few seconds to remember how to heel brake, and I was off. 

I skated 20 easy miles today, the main difference being I no longer slowed down to a crawl to go under bridges, or around blind corners, or down small hills - something I had been doing. I had to brake twice for pedestrians and had no issues. I am very, very happy. I feel confident once more. I am still amazed at how much of my confidence is tied to a tiny piece of rubber, but whatever works!

I also did some tweaking with my hydration - I've been having some major issues with electrolyte imbalances while running; so I figured it wouldn't hurt to tweak this while skating either. It was about 85 degrees when I was skating so not too hot - but I tend to sweat like crazy no matter how hot it is; and when it's hotter I just sweat even more. I soak through anything I'm wearing and end up with a crusty layer of salt all over my skin. So for me personally, I know that electrolyte replacement is essential. I have been skating with coconut water and Gatorade - but that is a LOT of sugar and empty calories. Especially when I drop a GU or 2 in on top of it. Today I had one Nuun tablet in 24 oz of water, and 16 oz of plain water. This is my first time trying Nuun, I had the tri-berry flavor and I really liked it. It's not overly sweet at all. I ate a GU at 30 minutes; I was out for an hour and a half. I drank all of the Nuun water and almost all of the regular water - and I was soaked with sweat. I did one scoop of Max Muscle ARM (lemon lime) in 12 oz of water for my recovery drink. I'll shower, then eat a nice healthy lunch. Right now I feel pretty good; just have a little bit of a headache but NO stomach cramps. I probably could have done a GU before I started but wanted to try this out. Overall I felt like I had a consistent energy level in spite of the heat. 

I'll probably just focus on shorter skates for now - my next race is a half marathon. The next full one isn't until September. Now that I have my confidence back I need to get my speed up! Ok, must shower, I smell pretty rank...

One Size Does NOT Fit All.

When I strapped on my first pair of inline skates 18 years ago - I didn't ask anyone how to skate. Or how to stop. I skated around my garage until I had a grasp on the balance thing; then I took off down a trail. I had NO IDEA how to stop. I had to do a scary drop and roll while crossing a busy street; I was picking gravel out of my shoulder for two days! This is what made me slow down and take the time to learn how to use my heel brake. I taught myself. I fell a lot those early days, but eventually I got it and skating became really, really fun. I didn't wear pads or a  helmet; I wore cut-offs and tank tops with a baseball hat. It wasn't exercise, I skated based on TIME, no clue as to how far I was going or how fast; "I skated an hour today". I just wanted to be outside having fun!

Flash forward to 2011, and I discovered this whole world of skaters out there - and actual skate events. And that began a new learning and growing process for me. I used to get so frustrated when I would see other skaters pass me on the trail; so I kept buying faster bearings. I had no idea that it was actually small wheels holding me back. Bit by bit I began to learn new things to take my skating to the next level. I have some really amazing skate friends who are super passionate and knowledgeable - but I soon became overwhelmed with information. 

I have to admit; I'm hesitant to write this blog. I don't want to upset anyone. But there are some things that have been really bothering me. They were just nagging thoughts until I began running. The running community is so different from the skating community. The running mentality is 'whatever works for you'. So I run a 5K with a full fuel belt? I'm not judged for that. I feel embarrassed because I think I run slow: I get nothing but positive feedback and encouragement. I wear spandex shorts instead of traditional running shorts - nobody bats an eye because nobody CARES. Whatever works for you. I have questions about socks, or compression gear, or chafing - the advice I get always starts with 'well, this is what works for me; it may or may not work for you, but you could try it'. I have NEVER had anyone say 'do it this way or you are a sucky runner and a loser'. Never. I ran a race where I saw a dude running in jeans and a t-shirt! I didn't judge, hey man, whatever works for YOU.

Skating is not like that. Ditch the visor on your helmet, you look like a weenie. Ditch your brake, real skaters don't need a brake. It's a very judgmental sport. It makes me feel sad because it is a dying sport. You would think that with as small of a community as we are, we would embrace everyone who chooses to put inline skates on; regardless of their gear, or the size of their wheels, or if they wear full pads and need a heel brake. I mean honestly, why should it even matter? I had to stop visiting an online forum because the attacks on anyone doing things deemed 'incorrect' by other skaters depressed me. I just don't get it. I narrowed down the number of people I seek advice from and started only going to them. My friends. I still get unsolicited advice from skaters whenever I post something they don't agree with; and that pisses me off. If I want advice, I'll ask someone I trust in my circle. I've been on the speed skates for a year and a half; I've skated 6 marathons, 1 half marathon, and the 38 mile portion of Athens to Atlanta. (I also skated the half marathon, my first full marathon, and A2A on rec skates with a heel brake.) I get it, I know what I'm capable of, I know what makes me uncomfortable and what makes me feel confident. I'm done with conforming to the ideal, it's time that I do WHAT WORKS FOR ME.

First and foremost, I am getting a brake for my skates. I don't give a fuck if it makes me look like a dweeb. I have lost so much of my confidence when I trail skate that I don't even look forward to it anymore. I automatically start imagining all of the worst case scenarios that can come up; and I feel reluctant. And fearful. I do know how to t-stop and snow plow. I do. BUT - I cannot do it at high speed. So guess what I do? Yep. I skate SLOW. Not conducive to training for a RACE. I won't wear a brake while I race, I feel super confident when I know I won't be dealing with the same kind of traffic that congests the trail I skate. But for the conditions I train in, a brake makes sense. 

I'm not interested in being an elite skater. I am not interested in going pro. I skate because it's fun. And I enjoy it. I like racing but I will never be super fast. I'm totally okay with this. My unsolicited advice to the judgmental skaters is to think about what you're doing. What works for you may or may not work for someone else, so do you really have to make them feel bad if they choose to do it a different way? People like to have choices and options; there really truly is no one size fits all when it comes to skating. We should encourage each other to enjoy the sport at our respective levels. Don't be such a skate snob. And if putting a stupid brake on my skate will help me regain my confidence and start enjoying my trail skates again; then it is more than worth having a select few skaters deem me a loser. The fact that I'm out there at all tells me that I'm not.

Hmm... My Rudy Project helmet actually came with a really cool visor. I may just throw that back on too....

Apostle Islands Inline Marathon 2013

Ahh Apostle. I promise this time I won't forget how much I love you....

I'll be honest, I wasn't feeling it. I have not done much skating this year, partly due to the weather and partly due to training for the Colfax half marathon. I did not feel like I was really prepared to inline race yet. But, I got a beautiful new set of Mayhem wheels and had made up my mind to not focus on anything except enjoying myself. No stress - just skate. I boarded a plane without realizing that I had completely spaced packing my rain set-up. So... No rain wheels, no boot covers; no cold weather gear.. Nada. (I left all of that stuff sitting on the floor in my living room...) It had been in the 90's all week here in Colorado, I guess mentally I just couldn't grasp that I was going north where the chances of it being cold and/or wet at some point during the weekend were like 100%. 

I arrived in Minneapolis on Thursday night; had a nice dinner and a good night's sleep. We headed up to Bayfield, WI on Friday; I got my packet, checked into the hotel and got ready to meet some friends for dinner. I watched the dark clouds roll over the lake and just as we were about to head out to the restaurant; it started to rain. I felt my heart sink. We parked the car outside the restaurant and the minute I stepped out into the rain, my mood and my attitude took an even bigger nose dive. We had a nice dinner with our friends, but I kept whining about not packing rain gear. I completely forgot that it's best to keep your fears to yourself. However, I was feeling an awful lot of fear and anxiety... It's really hard to keep that stuff on lock down....

Dinner With My Skate Family!

I have never skated in rain - and I was on a brand spanking new set of wheels that didn't even have a scuff on them. I'm not the most confident skater anyway these days - ever since switching to the Bonts; so the idea of skating in the rain had me feeling terrified! Everyone kept telling me I'd be fine, but I couldn't get that feeling of dread to dissipate. 

Went to bed around 10 - slept fitfully; if at all. Woke up at 4 am to the sound of pouring rain. I was wide awake. Laid there listening to the rain with a zillion things running through my head.... What do I do? Do I show up, suit up, and prepare to bow out at the last minute? Do I at least attempt it? Do I just stay in bed?? I eventually got up and started getting dressed. I went outside and it wasn't too cold so at least I knew I'd be okay in shorts. The rain stopped and I crossed my fingers that it would stay that way and that the pavement had time to dry.

With my attitude still in the shitter; I boarded the ferry to Madaline Island at 6:30 am. My filter was still off and I was being very vocal about my fears and my lack of confidence. I seriously need to work on that - even to my own ears I was starting to sound like a baby! ("There's no crying in speed skating - unless you're missing some skin or have broken bones!!") I shouldered my skate bag and unloaded from the ferry. I guess I just had that moment where you do a mental shrug; accept that whatever will happen will happen - and I will face it and be okay. Suck it up and let it be what it is. Letting go of all of that finally helped me relax a bit. I figured the worst that could happen is that I slide and lose some skin, right? That's not too bad - I've already done that before... I got my skates on, did not even warm up or stretch or anything: I was too busy watching everyone go back and forth about what set-up to go with, dry or wet? Leggings or no? I had no such dilemmas since I didn't bother to pack any options...

I Think I'm Good To Go!

We lined up and I had the usual butterflies in my tummy. My strategy was pretty basic; take the first lap a little easy to feel out the course and the other skaters. After that - I would adjust accordingly. Each lap is about 8.7 miles around, that's plenty of time to warm up and get a feel for the course. I hung a bit towards the back  and started out slow.

Looking Like I'm Going For A Sunday Stroll And Not About To Race 26.2 Miles.... D'Oh!

About halfway through the first lap, I realized two things; 1 - the pavement was pretty much DRY so I would be totally fine!! And 2 - that I was probably going to end up skating solo. I passed about 4 pacelines with zero desire to join any of them. I know I'll get blasted for this but I seriously hate skating in pacelines, especially ones with other inexperienced skaters. (I know I'm a nightmare in a paceline too - I tend to hang back or drop in and out of the line depending on the speed.) All I saw were legs and elbows all over the place and decided I wanted no part of that noise. I tucked in, found my own pace and just enjoyed the scenery.

I Don't Need No Stinkin' Paceline!

This course is amazing! The pavement is smooth, it's relatively flat; and the scenery is gorgeous. There is a bend that you come around when you're about 2-3 miles from completing a lap; it's my favorite part of the course. You are flying along a tree lined street, come around the bend; and then see this gorgeous bay. I could hear the waves lapping up against the shore; it's breathtaking. I absolutely love it!

I have no idea why the corner before the finish line scares me. I think it's because of all of the people standing around, not the actual turn itself. It's a very wide 90 degree right hand turn. I took it slow and standing completely upright like a moron. Oh well... First lap under my belt - I felt warm, I had a feel for the course; and decided to crank things up a bit! [Lap 1 - 36:13 - 14.42 mile/hr average]

Coming Up On The Corner Towards The Finish Of Lap 1 - Oh I Know, My Form Is Crap....

Lap 2 was better; it was actually my best lap. I felt relaxed, nothing on the course was causing anxiety; I handled the hard right turns just fine, and I felt great. I was completely okay with skating solo. [Lap 2 - 34:04 - 15.32 mile/hr average]

By the 3rd lap I was feeling a little tired. I got to see the pro men cross the finish line; they crossed just as I was about to finish my 2nd lap. It's always exciting to see the pros do what they do. Amazing. I couldn't quite maintain the same speed as my 2nd lap, but I was still going faster than the first. But more importantly; I was enjoying myself. I was looking around at the scenery, I felt happy and exhilarated. My feet were holding out, no tingling in the balls of my feet, no unbearable pain in my ankles or shins. I kept on going and came around that stupid corner for the last time to the finish line. I finished lap 3 at an average of 15.05 mile/hr total time was 1:44.29. Seven minutes slower than last year - but considering how crappy my attitude was and how little training I've actually done this  year: I was thrilled with that! I also managed to place 2nd in my age group - out of 8. So that was pretty awesome and unexpected. I was 17th out of 57 females; I feel good about that too!

I guess I just needed to be reminded. It's not about the pain, or the frustration, or the fear. These are all things that can be overcome if you are strong enough to resist the urge to quit. (Believe me, I've had the urge to quit...) I guess I forgot about that moment when the aches recede and I find my 'skate legs', and the breeze is in my face and the swishing of my skates is as rhythmic as a heartbeat. I forgot how much fun it is. How it feels like flying. How exciting it is to zip across the finish line. I forgot how awesome it is to hang out with other skaters who are passionate about the sport. I just needed to be reminded that I do in fact love this. I love traveling, I love the camaraderie, I love the satisfaction of finishing - especially on a day when I didn't think I would.

The Reason Why I Do This - I'm In Excellent Company!

My Wonderful Friends

I still have a ways to go to get back to being as confident as I was prior to transitioning to the Bonts - but I think I know what I need to do. I need to practice stopping. I need to learn how to stop on a dime and be confident that I can stop on a dime if I have to. That's the only thing holding me back these days. It seems like such a stupid minor thing but I cannot believe how much it's affected my confidence. I know I can stop - I just don't feel confident that I can stop quickly at the higher speeds. Only way to change that is to get out and do it. Again, and again, until I feel I've got it. 

Not sure what's next up for me - I'm still on the fence about skating Chicago, I may run another half marathon in July instead. Or maybe I'll do both... I have a little bit of time to decide. For now I am going to focus on a few skate issues, keep running and keep improving! My season has just begun - I have a lot I want to do!

Farewell, Beautiful Bayfield, WI - Until Next Year!!!!

Time to Switch Gears!

So I ran my first half marathon this past Sunday, and all of the training paid off - I came in a full 40 minutes faster than my original goal time of 2:45; and 10 minutes faster than my last minute goal time of 2:15. My finish time was 2:05:13!! I went into the training with the mindset of 'I just want to finish' - but at some point it became clear that simply finishing was not enough. I wanted to see what I was truly capable of. So I pushed myself really hard, and I'll admit - those last two miles were brutal!! But crossing that finish line ahead of my goal time was definitely a huge accomplishment! I had an upset stomach for two days but it was counteracted by the huge smile on my face. I made a decision. I committed to the training; and I exceeded my expectations. It was a beautiful thing.

Now it's time to switch gears, put running on the back burner, and focus on skating! I intend to keep skating for team Ezeefit Lite - I love being associated with some remarkable skaters and a product I actually believe in. My first skate race is in 24 days - The Apostle Islands Inline marathon! I did it last year and had a really great time! The town of Bayfield is beautiful, the course is wonderful, and I get to see a lot of my friends. I'm looking forward to all of that!! I am approaching the race pretty much the same way I did last year - with no pressure and no hard expectations. I hope to come in at or below my time from last year (1:40) but my primary goal is to have fun! I'm staying out there an extra day so I can spend more time with my friend Susan, and I'm really looking forward to the entire weekend.

The primary intent of taking up running as cross training was to maintain my conditioning throughout the winter. I was tired of gaining 10+ pounds every winter and spending the first part of skate season losing the weight and regaining my endurance and conditioning. I am happy to report that I was successful! I didn't gain any weight, and I've been out on my skates only 6 times this year; but I never had that feeling of starting over again. I didn't feel like there had been a few months in between skate sessions. I skated pretty strong and felt really good! So my plan worked!!! An added bonus was actually falling in love with running and now having 2 sports that I feel actively involved with. Win/win.

I'm quitting my job and my last day is next Friday (May 31st) and I'm going to take the month of June off. I will be training a lot during that time. I should be ready for Apostle with no worries. I intend to continue running as well; I will continue my Tue/Thur weight and running workouts, I'll skate 3x per week and I will also continue to do the Saturday morning long run. I don't really want to skate on the weekends if I can help it; the trail is way too congested and it makes me really tense. I'm hoping for weekday skates with fewer people on the trail! I skated 20 miles today, and the trail was relatively empty. I'm looking forward to that very much.

July I will probably do another running event; I won't be skating a race then. In August I'm doing the duathlon in St Paul: skating a half marathon then running a 5K. I'm pretty excited about that one. I think it will be challenging. After that is Northshore in September - then I'll probably switch back to running. I plan on running the Rock n Roll half in October; and of course I will continue to run throughout the winter again.

I think I can finally call myself an athlete; rather than a wanna be. My primary criteria was consistency. For too many years I was on again, off again and to me - a true athlete is consistently active. I feel that I have finally reached that point. Better late than never...

And so the countdown to Apostle has begun!!

Taking Chances

 

 

This particular entry doesn't particularly pertain to skating. No, wait - yes it does. It does because it's about change, and making changes takes courage and confidence. Well, it just so happens that courage and confidence are two things I have gained through skating!

 

On Tuesday I handed in my resignation. I have no other job lined up, so I'm basically free falling into the next chapter of my life without a parachute. My husband gave me his blessing of course, I would never do something so drastic without his support. I've been unhappy for a very long time, ever since a sequence of events culminated in me arriving at this particular moment in time feeling completely burnt out and ready for a change. (I won't bore you with the details because I am trying very hard to let go of the negativity.)

 

I got my first payroll job in 2000 purely by chance; and I don't want to do it anymore. I don't want to sit behind a desk like the dude with the red stapler from Office Space. I want to wake up every morning looking forward to my job, not dreading it. I want to do something I enjoy, something I love - I just need to figure out what that is.

 

I would love to do something with fitness. Nutrition, exercise, etc. I love learning about it, I love sharing information and I love working with people. My hesitation comes from the disastrous experience I had in 2011 with Going Back To School.... (If you weren't reading my blog back then - basically I decided to go back for my associates degree in Human Performance...) It's been over a decade since I've taken any type of classes, I signed up for ONE class (English 101) and I couldn't even make it through the entire semester. I didn't even get to the good classes! That kind of crushed my spirits and my ambition. I know there are other ways of obtaining this knowledge and getting into this field - I just haven't fully explored them yet. But I need to.

 

2 years ago I had a moment where I wondered if I was capable of skating a half marathon. And then I took a chance; and I did it. And I gained confidence. Then I wondered if I could skate a full marathon - so I took another chance, and I did it; and I gained even more confidence. Now I'm two weeks away from running my first half marathon, and I feel stronger and more confident than I ever have in my life. Me, running a HALF MARATHON when a year ago I couldn't even run down the block... I'm scared yes - but my fear is always entwined with excitement; and I'm learning how to focus on the excitement until the fear fades into the background. I do this when I skate. I do this when I run; I will need to do this as I begin my new career path. Whatever that may be. 

 

My tentative plan is to take the month of June off - to focus on training for Apostle and clearing my head: do some research and see if I can figure out once and for all what I want to be when I grow up - before I'm retirement age....